The Bharadwaj family has a noticeably totally different begin each morning. Vivek Bharadwaj (identify modified), a busy advertising knowledgeable earlier than the lockdown began, is seen largely washing the dishes from the evening earlier than as his spouse Ayushi Sharma is busy getting ready her 5-year-old son for his on-line courses. As soon as Vivek leaves the kitchen spick and span, the mound of unwashed dishes now gone, the cooktop devoid of oil and dirt and the ground scrubbed to perfection, it is Ayushi’s flip to take over the kitchen. Whereas she readies breakfast and prepares for lunch, Vivek takes care of the fidgety toddler’s schoolwork whereas on the brink of work at home. Because the clock strikes 9, they’re served breakfast, and Ayushi, who has eaten hurridly whereas serving their breakfast, now begins her day’s work of a busy accountant.

Afternoons are not any totally different. Just like the fingers of a clock, each Ayushi and Vivek work collectively in unmatched synchronisation—if Ayushi prepares lunch, Vivek will take the responsibility of serving it. And thus, their life throughout the pandemic ran clean, with none assist from a 3rd particular person. Among the many many classes that the majority males have discovered throughout Cornonavirus, cooking and doing family chores are life abilities that might undoubtedly assist them grow to be a greater and stronger particular person. Nevertheless, the large query is will the person of the home proceed doing family chores or serving to the womenfolk within the kitchen after the pandemic is over and life returns to regular?

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For Bhaskar Majumdar, a Delhi-based strategic communication specialist, Covid 19 and the next lockdown have been a interval of nice self-realisation and self-learning for him. His spouse and son went to Dibrugarh, Assam, on March 19 and sadly, they bought caught there as a result of lockdown. “I by no means imagined that I must handle the home all on my own. From cooking to cleansing and managing the whole lot alone with none assist, it was an amazing studying course of for me.” Bhaskar who has been sharing some attention-grabbing footage of meals cooked by him on social media, stated, “I’ve realised that not solely can I cook dinner for survival, in actual fact, I can cook dinner fairly effectively and that too unique dishes, moreover the common ones. This lockdown has made me realise that I’ve culinary abilities and now my household is again however I’ve continued cooking. It is an enormous stress buster for me and my household can also be fairly amazed by my culinary abilities. Together with cooking I’ve additionally enrolled and accomplished just a few on-line programs and I by no means thought that I’ll begin studying once more at this age.”

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Anuj Kumar Boruah, a communication entrepreneur and resident of Noida, could be very optimistic and enthusiastic in regards to the adjustments that the pandemic-induced lockdown has introduced in his life. Telling us about his childhood, Anuj shared how he and his two brothers grew up doing family chores as they watched their father assist their mom since each have been working professionals. However hostel life and later, as he bought married, he step by step stopped doing family chores and serving to within the kitchen as he bought busy in his skilled life. “You see, my spouse Kalyanee and I led a really busy life after marriage as each have been working full time. Quickly our daughter Kuhi arrived in our lives and we turned completely dependant on our helpers—one who cleaned the home and the opposite took care of the cooking. When the lockdown began and we not had the posh of getting exterior assist, we divided the chores between us—whereas Kalyani taken care of cooking, I gladly took over the cost of cleansing.” Anuj, who appeared fairly glad about taking cost of family chores, stated it has been fairly an eye-opener. “We now have learnt an important lesson about being self-dependent. After all, I’ll proceed doing the identical even after the lockdown is over.” Pointing on the well being advantages of doing chores, Anuj added, “Additionally, I’ve realised throughout these two months how cleansing and scrubbing is a superb type of train. Nicely, it may be counted as a exercise once we hardly have any bodily actions to maintain match, proper?”

Hopefully, the pandemic might need taught tens of millions of males an vital lesson—doing family chores isn’t just a girls’s activity. Sadly, when males select to do family chores, their act is glorified and is commonly counted as ‘serving to’ relatively than ‘accountability’. We hope identical to Vivek, Anuj and Bhaskar, different males too would take this chance to study just a few life abilities and proceed doing the identical even after the lockdown is over and as our life returns to regular.